Trust & safety

You are letting someone into your mother’s home. Here is exactly who we let in.

Most services tell you they are trustworthy. That is not worth much on its own, so this page sets out precisely what every helper completes before we introduce them, what they will never do, and what happens if you raise a concern. Free connection sites and community groups do none of this; it is the main reason to use us rather than a Facebook post.

Every helper, before their first introduction

No exceptions, and no “pending” profiles. A helper appears on Witho only once all of this is complete.

DBS criminal record check

Every helper holds a current DBS certificate, obtained through Care Check, an approved DBS umbrella body. We see the original certificate — not a photocopy or a screenshot — and we record the certificate number and issue date. Helpers stay subscribed to the DBS Update Service, so a check cannot quietly go stale after a year. Most free connection sites do no criminal record check at all; we will not list anyone without one.

Identity, right to work, and address

Photo identification is checked against the person in front of us at interview, and their mobile number is verified separately. We confirm the right to work in the UK and check the home address — an address that cannot be confirmed is one of the clearest early warning signs there is.

Two references, taken up properly

We take up two references and speak to the referees rather than accepting written statements at face value. We ask directly whether they would be comfortable with this person supporting their own relative. Hesitation in that answer tells us more than a paragraph of praise.

An interview with a member of the Witho team

Every helper is interviewed by a person, not a form — face to face where we can get to them, and by video call everywhere else, always with their photo identification in front of us. We listen for judgement and boundaries: what they would do if cash went missing, if they arrived and no one answered the door, and above all if a family asked them to help with washing or medication. Helpers who are vague about that last one are not introduced.

A profile in their own words

Helpers describe what they enjoy doing and what they are good at, in their own words, so you can judge for yourself whether they are right for your family. We check what they tell us against their references. We do not train helpers or certify skills, and we say so plainly.

Insurance cover for booked sessions

Witho holds insurance covering visits booked through the platform. It applies to visits arranged and booked through Witho — anything arranged privately outside the platform falls outside that cover, which is one of the reasons we ask families and helpers to keep bookings on Witho. If you would like the policy details, ask us and we will send them.

Driving licence and insurance, where relevant

Helpers who drive to visits or take the people they support out show a valid driving licence and business-use motor insurance. Social and domestic cover is not sufficient for this, and we check for it specifically.

What a Witho helper will never do

Witho is support, not care. That boundary is not a technicality — it is what keeps the service safe, affordable and outside CQC regulation. Alongside it sit the integrity rules about money and gifts, which is where families are most often let down. Every helper accepts all of it as a condition of using Witho, and breaching any of it means removal from the platform.

No personal care, ever:

  • Washing, bathing, dressing or toileting
  • Administering medication (helpers may remind and prompt only)
  • Lifting, hoisting or helping someone transfer
  • Wound care, injections or any clinical or nursing task
  • Anything a district nurse or registered helper should be doing

And on money and honesty:

  • No handling money beyond agreed shopping, always with receipts.
  • No access to bank cards, PINs, or online banking.
  • No gifts, loans, or borrowing from the person they support.
  • No involvement in anyone’s will, property, or financial affairs.
  • Concerns about someone’s welfare are reported to Witho and to you.
  • Anything beyond what you and your helper have agreed is discussed with you first.

If what your family needs has moved into personal care, we will tell you so directly and point you towards regulated providers, even though it means we lose the work. Here is exactly where the line sits.

If you are worried about something

Raising a concern does not make you a nuisance. Here is exactly what happens, in order, so you know what you are setting in motion.

You tell us — however small it seems

Email safeguarding@witho.co.uk or call us. You do not need to be certain, and you do not need evidence. If someone is in immediate danger, call 999 first; tell us afterwards.

The helper is paused the same day

As soon as a concern is raised, that helper takes no further Witho introductions or bookings while we look into it. Pausing is not a finding of fault — it protects the person supported, and it protects the helper from a concern hardening in the gap.

A director reviews it

Concerns are reviewed by a director of Witho, not passed down a queue. We speak to the family, the person supported where they wish, and the helper. Everything is recorded with dates and decisions.

We refer where we should

Where the concern meets the threshold, we refer to the local authority adult safeguarding team and, where a crime may have occurred, the police. We cooperate fully with any statutory investigation and we do not wait to be asked.

You are told what happened

We come back to you with the outcome and what has changed as a result. Where a helper is removed from Witho, they are removed permanently and we make a referral to the DBS barring service where the legal duty applies.

Contacts

Immediate danger: call 999.
Safeguarding concern: safeguarding@witho.co.uk
Anything else: hello@witho.co.uk

Read our full safeguarding policy.

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